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So...she's pregnant?

First and foremost, don’t panic. Your upcoming decisions don’t fall on your shoulders alone. You have a partner with whom to navigate your next steps and who needs you now more than ever. Look out for her both emotionally and physically. How?

Check out our tips of what to do:

  • Talk with her and LISTEN. Ghosting her or leaving her isn’t going to make this go away. In fact, it’s going to make things a lot harder for the both of you. Have frequent open and honest conversations!
  • Talk with the people who are important to each of you.Sure, you may want to keep it a secret during the initial shock. But the people who will be directly involved (parents, guardians, etc.) HAVE to know what’s going on eventually. And who knows, maybe they’ll even be willing to help!
  • Educate yourself. How can you help if you don’t even really know what’s going on in her body? Learn about what is happening both to her body and to your baby with each trimester. Go to her parenting classes. Go to her birthing classes. Read a book. Listen to a podcast during your workout. The more informed you are, the less confusion you’ll feel!
  • Be honest with her and with yourself! This isn’t the time to cover up your feelings. Scared? Say that! Anxious? Say that! Confused? Say that! Chances are, she is feeling all the same things and to know that you aren’t alone in your feelings will be a huge relief... for the both of you!

Have more questions?

There’s no doubting that this is hard. If you or your partner have more specific questions or concerns, reach out to us and we’d be happy to help.